Archive for July 25, 2008
Mothers
Mothers are not allowed to say that their daughters have put on weight
but they worry about the consequences and they are blamed for it, whether they say something or not.
If you mention that the girl has added a few kilos, you get tears and death stares for not loving her just as she is, for not supporting your very own words that ‘everyone comes packaged differently’ and because you are the pot calling the kettle black.
If you don’t mention it, you get tears and angry words because you didn’t say anything and you didn’t do anything to help the girl lose weight ie: let her go on a diet. Anger is directed towards you because you are not of slender physique and this has obviously been passed down through genetics.
It’s a lose/ lose situation when you are the mother of the pre teen girl.













