Motherhood…
Mother’s Day is coming and, usually, I look forward to a day of being spoiled and totally feeling like the world’s best mother but this year?
This year I don’t feel like the world’s best anything.
In fact I feel like sh*t.
The last few weeks have really knocked my confidence, as a mother.
I feel as though I am free falling.
Out of control.
In true blog - happy style though I am going to give you a photo of how I picture motherhood because that’s what they are doing over at 5 Minutes For Mom and even though I can’t enter their competition because I am an Aussie, I am going to join in because, today I really need to remind myself how wonderfully amazing motherhood is.
Motherhood is this;
that first breath taking, life altering glimpse at new life,
a change in this world - your world.
Knowing that nothing will ever be the same again, whether it is your first foray into motherhood or you sixth time down the road, your journey will be different from anything that has gone before it.
Motherhood is looking into the eyes of your child,
and knowing perfection, for just that instant
and nothing else matters.
Motherhood is the past, the present and the future all wrapped up in this tiny being.
It is joy, hope, sacrifice, love, fear, sometimes painful, miraculous, often messy, exhausting
but worth it.
All of it is.
Oh goody, I think I get to make the first comment!
Possibly because I’ve seen it before.
Hmm….think I recognized a couple of people in that picture
Here is to an outstanding mother, whose loving heart welcomed each baby with the same joy as if it was the very first, and then welcomed two nephews as well.
Here is to a mother who manages with serious care, but a very light touch.
Here is to a mother who tenaciously holds to what she knows is right for her children.
Here is to a mother who shares with so many other people the gift of herself, and has made her circle wide with friends.
Here is to somone I feel privileged to know!!
YOU.
What a glorious shot. Well said, my love, as always x
Well, from what I have read and from where I sit, you are one of the truly deserving mothers.
You are WAY too hard on yourself. Look at everything you have done, overcome, and WILL overcome.
Mothers day is meant for mothers like you. Those who get out of bed every morning despite the dramas they know will unfold. Those who blame themselves for decisions so called specialists make. Those who keep on battling the odds.
Hearts and flowers to you, my dear. You ARE worthy!
It is definitely worth it!
what a lovely post! And I think you’re a fantastic mother!! I’m in awe of you, and I agree with Goaldeebug… you’re much too hard on yourself.
Wow. I needed that today.
Smootches sweetie.
<3
Beautiful.
(BIG HUG) because I love you.
You ooze motherhood from every pore, you can simply not ‘not be’ a mother, and simply not ‘not be’ such a naturally gifted one.
You are a mother to more than you realise.
I am sorry you feel bad.
May I remind you that this mother all the way in the U.S.A. admires your mothering abilities.
YOU are a wonderful mum.
And this post is beautiful. I read a book before Oldest was born…in it the author said “No matter where you live when you bring your baby home, it is your Bethlehem.” Still gives me chills to this day.
Tiff, I think I have told you before but I will say it again cause it is so true.
You are the strongest, most beautiful, caring, loving, giving, selfless mother and person that I know.
Everyday you give yourself 1000% even if some days it dosn’t feel like it.
I know that the days that you feel like crap, are the hardest to get through.
So I hope these comments help a little.
SUPER MUM….
Wow! That pictures is incredible!
The pic is wonderful, and even though I have only been here on your blog a week or so, I can tell what a wonderful parent you are.
Don’t be so hard on yourself! Any one of us can only do the very best we can, and you do.
Cheer up
xxx
Some lovely reflection there Tiff.
Just remember that what is happening in your family makes you an AMAZING mother because you’re coping with so much right now. None of which you had any control over.
I hope you do have a wonderful mother’s day.
I love the picture. There’s a very similar one in a book I have called A Child Is Born, which details the story from conception to birth. my children loved looking at it when I was pregnant with my 4th and seeing what stage the baby was up to.
Please feel better. You’re a great Mum, the smiles on your children’s faces prove it. Nothing can beat the happiness that radiates from your photo spreads.
Awesome picture! Thanks for sharing I think your comments are very valid and you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself right now. Especially if life is looking a little gray around the edges.
Next time you flip through your pictures focus on the happy moments and hopefully things will come back into a better focus.
You are beautiful — you know that don’t you? That was just stunning — as is that shot. You and your hubby sure make some beautiful kiddos, Tiff!
Simply lovely…thank you so much for sharing anyways!!
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