Defcon 1! All systems go!
I adressed my issues with the paed.
I told him about trust and how important it was to me.
I told him how hard it was for me to trust.
Especially doctors.
I told him that for me to trust anyone with my children’s health was a big thing.
I think he got it.
I told him where I was coming from and how much it had hurt - the accusation.
I told him I had spent such a long time learning to trust myself and that his words had burned.
He apologised.
Profusely.
And then he told me he liked golf and wore Ruggers.
That:
was an overshare, my friends.
I didn’t mind though because it meant things were on their way to being back to normal.
Yay!!!! (umm what are ruggers???)
(((HUGS))) kim xxx
That is great.
I read all the previous posts, I am just too slack (and time constrained) to comment. Hoping Ivy stays blister free and that the new plan works.
The best news I have heard all week (hugs) - you have to be able to trust him again with you and IVY to move forward or give him the flick.
I am glad he apologised.
Kim - they are tight ,short shorts (probably too cold for your Tassie blokes) - kind of like school boy style grey.
Good for you!!! That’s wonderful news! I’m so glad he apologized!! Things are looking up!! Yay!!
I’m SO glad. So so SO glad.
I hope he doesn’t wear Ruggers while playing golf!
Thats great news!
My hubby wears ruggers………… but the long leg ones. He thinks the short ones are icky!
It’s good that the paed now knows how you feel and why. Open communication is better than holding things in and feeling that he’s not listening or understanding. Pity you had to hear about the ruggers though. Perhaps if he’d shared something a little less “personal”? we now wouldn’t all have scary images in our heads.
You know how happy I am to hear this good news. WTG!
But ROFL…now we have entered the strange, strange, STRANGE world of what doctors like to wear when you aren’t looking. Having met the paed, I won’t be able to see him again without thinking about this. Or possibly without bursting into laughter. Now you know what to get him for Christmas (if he continues to be a good boy, that is).
?????? He talked to you about Ruggers???? Ok, for future reference, I think you’re safe to chalk up anything this guy either says badly or fails to say that he should say, up to social ineptitude….
WAY TO GO!!! Kicking butts and taking numbers! You are my idol!!!
Your kids are so cute, I can’t stand it.
The postnap picture is just…well, it’s just JUST! ha ha. ‘Do you think I’m cute?’ ha ha, that is SO funny.
Oh….I love your photos!! Your family is beautiful!!